Act or be acted upon.
You can wish and hope and dream in full futility, or you can get up off your keister and actually do something about your own life.
Wishing & dreaming without action is setting yourself up for discouragment, dashed hope and eventually bitterness. It's a pretty simple formula. Now that you know better, allow us to share with you a new tool.
Oprah's Life Class, frankly, is not for the faint of heart. It is real work for people who want real change in their lives.
The work isn't going to do itself. You can't pay someone to do it for you. Carving out & defining yourself and your own life is a process. It doesn't come easy, nor quickly. It is work.
If you want to be better, and enhance your ability to enjoy your life and be a greater blessing to others embrace this challenge. Our staff went through this process. There were some uncomfortable revelations in the process, of how we often see and define ourselves, and the truth of how we really are. Ouch. It smarts, but there is not one of us who is not better and more empowered for embracing this challenge.
Go for it!